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Posts : 2514
Join date : 2009-06-19
Location : Singapore
|Subject: something to keep... Sun Jul 12, 2009 6:37 pm|| |
The moral of this story is to hold on and cherish the people whom we love. Appreciate their presence even though they may not be as perfect as we like them to be. Count the many blessings we can share a meal together, a conversation together and a laugh or two together.
Their marriage was good, their dreams focused. Their best friends lived barely a wave away. I can see them now, Dad in trousers, work shirt and a hat; and Mom in a house dress, lawn mower in one hand, and dish-towel in the other? It was the time for fixing things: a curtain rod, the kitchen radio, screen door, the oven door, the hem in a dress. Things we keep.
It was a way of life, and sometimes it made me crazy? All that re-fixing, re-heating leftovers, renewing; I wanted just once to be wasteful? Waste meant affluence. Throwing things away meant you knew there'd always be more.?
But when my mother died, and I was standing in that clear morning light in the warmth of the hospital room, I was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any more.
Sometimes, what we care about most gets all used up and goes away...never to return. So... While we have it, it's best we love it... And care for it... And fix it when it's broken... And heal it when it's sick.?
This is true: For marriage... And old cars... And children with bad report cards... Dogs and cats with bad hips... And aging parents... And grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it. Some things we keep, like a best friend that moved away or a classmate we grew up with.?
There are just some things that make life important,?
Like people we know who are special... And so, we keep them close!
Good friends are like stars... You don't always see them, but you know they are always there!
Posts : 15650
Join date : 2009-06-18
Age : 41
Location : Typically OOB
|Subject: Re: something to keep... Sun Jul 12, 2009 7:32 pm|| |
Clearing my Storeroom
of golfing goodies. Please help support
"A ball will always come to rest halfway down a hill, unless there is sand or water at the bottom.
" Henry Beard
Posts : 67
Join date : 2009-06-24
|Subject: Re: something to keep... Wed Jul 15, 2009 12:01 am|| |
It's great to love and cherish. It's wonderful to be loved and cherished in return. Treasure what you have..........and had...........
|Subject: Re: something to keep... || |
Total Donation till date to
Autism Association (SG): S$46,285
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